Tag: Grief

It’s Okay to Grieve

In today’s readings from Lamentations 5, Obadiah 1, and Jeremiah 40-41, we’re reminded that even the most faithful servants of God, like Jeremiah, experience deep grief and sorrow. Jeremiah, who had prophesied the eventual restoration and glory of Jerusalem, was still profoundly affected by the immediate devastation and loss that he witnessed.

This leads us to an important understanding: Joy in the Christian life is not synonymous with constant happiness or a cheerful demeanor in all circumstances. Rather, true joy is rooted in the hope we have in God—a hope that endures even through tears and pain.

Lamentations 5 presents a vivid picture of the suffering and despair experienced by the people of Jerusalem after the city’s destruction. Yet, even in this darkest hour, there is a cry to God—a recognition that He is still sovereign and that restoration is possible. This cry is not a denial of the pain but a hopeful acknowledgment of God’s enduring faithfulness.

Jeremiah himself, though a prophet of hope, did not ignore the realities of his present situation. His grief was real, and it was valid. However, his joy was found not in the absence of sorrow but in the assurance that God’s promises would ultimately come to pass.

This distinction is crucial for us today. We may face circumstances that bring deep sorrow, and it’s important to acknowledge and feel that pain. But biblical joy is the strength that allows us to look to God through our tears, trusting that He is at work and that His promises are true. It’s the assurance that even in our darkest moments, God is with us, and He will see us through to the fulfillment of His good purposes.

Grief, Glory, and God’s Eternal Purposes

Grief is a complex and deeply personal experience that manifests in various ways. Some people express it openly, with tears and lament, while others may internalize their sorrow, showing little outward signs of their inner turmoil. The Christian response to grief is multifaceted. We are called to mourn with those who mourn, showing compassion and empathy. Yet, as Christians, our response is also shaped by our hope in Christ and the knowledge that God is sovereign over all circumstances, even the painful ones.

Ezekiel’s experience in chapter 24, where he was commanded not to outwardly mourn the loss of his wife, reminds us that sometimes, grief is not just about expressing sorrow but about trusting in God’s greater plan. Outward expressions of grief can be important, but they are not the ultimate measure of our response to loss. True comfort comes from knowing that, despite the pain and suffering we experience, God is working all things together for His eternal purposes.

This doesn’t always lessen the immediate sting of grief, but it provides a framework for understanding our suffering within the larger context of God’s redemptive plan. We may not always understand the “why” behind our pain, but we can take small comfort in the reality that God is weaving even our grief into His glory-filled purposes.