Deuteronomy 2:34 reads, “At that time we seized all his cities and put every one of them under divine judgment, including even the women and children; we left no survivors.”
It seems so shocking by today’s standards. God said to do what?! And why?! The questions seek no answer. They are rhetorical. And more than that, they are an open condemnation. A back-handed rebuke of God. A eyebrow-pumping, denunciation of His character.
We understand “God is Love” to mean that God is only love. Firstly, this is not true. But more than that, we misunderstand what love even means. Love is not unquestioning permission. Love is not a life without reproof or admonishment. When I was a child I got into some trouble with a friend of mine. My mother caught us. She tore a strip off of me, but didn’t say a single word about it to my friend. She escorted him home and I was serving my “sentence” for several days to come. I asked why she yelled at me but not at him.
I will never forget her response: “Because I don’t love him”
Love meant a justified anger and associated punishment for wrongdoing. It meant correction. Like Hamlet trying to dissuade his mother from consecrating a marriage to the evil Claudius by telling her hard truths. He summed up his position this way, “I must be cruel only to be kind.”
We assume that this earthly life is the best possible outcome. And that is understandable because it’s what we know. It makes sense to us. But that is precisely why — as I wrote a couple days ago — we must defer to God and ask Him to shift our perspective so we can see things like He does.
Pray for that perspective, friends.