Tag: Christian Living

Gather and Grow

Hebrews 10:24–25 says, “And let us take thought of how to spur one another on to love and good works, not abandoning our own meetings, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging each other, and even more so because you see the day drawing near” (NET).

There’s a rhythm to life that often changes with the seasons, especially as we approach the end of the year. Many of us find ourselves buried in commitments, holiday planning, and the general busyness that this time brings. It’s easy to deprioritize gathering with others or encouraging one another in the faith. Yet this is precisely when we need it most.

The author of Hebrews emphasizes two commands here: spur each other on and don’t neglect meeting together. Both are crucial for our spiritual growth. Spurring someone on implies intentionality—it’s not passive. It means urging others toward love and good works, encouraging them to grow in faith, and being a part of their journey. Similarly, the call to meet together isn’t just about attending church services or Bible studies; it’s about participating in the community of believers, being present, and sharing in one another’s burdens and joys.

Think about how God designed us. We aren’t meant to follow Him in isolation. The church is called the body of Christ for a reason—it’s made up of individuals who come together to form something stronger and more vibrant than any one part alone. When we meet together, we remind each other of God’s goodness, we hold each other accountable, and we become active participants in God’s work in the world.

This season, let’s make it a priority to lean into what it means to be part our Christian community, to be the voice of encouragement someone else may desperately need, and to let others encourage us in return. God speaks powerfully through His Word, but He also speaks through the fellowship of believers. Don’t let the distractions of life keep you from experiencing the blessings of gathering with His people.

A Life That Honors God

In Colossians 1:9-10, Paul writes, “For this reason we also, from the day we heard about you, have not ceased praying for you and asking God to fill you with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, so that you may live worthily of the Lord and please him in all respects — bearing fruit in every good deed, growing in the knowledge of God” (NET).

Paul’s prayer reveals a critical connection between knowing God and living for Him. He petitions for the believers in Colossae to be filled with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding—attributes that aren’t just intellectual but deeply spiritual. This knowledge isn’t for personal pride or theoretical debate; it’s meant to result in lives that honor God.

A deeper understanding of God’s will shapes our choices, guiding us to live in ways that reflect His character. When Paul says “live worthily of the Lord”, he envisions a life aligned with God’s desires—a life marked by good deeds, steady growth in faith, and a pursuit of holiness. Knowledge that doesn’t transform our actions is incomplete; true wisdom moves us to love, serve, and glorify God in all we do.

But this transformation isn’t automatic. It requires effort, prayer, and submission. We live in a world that tempts us to pursue knowledge for personal gain or social validation, yet Paul reminds us that God’s wisdom is countercultural. It equips us to bear fruit—not for applause or recognition, but as evidence of His work in us.

Consider how this plays out in daily life. When we encounter difficult situations, spiritual wisdom helps us discern a response that reflects Christ’s love. When tempted to prioritize fleeting goals, understanding God’s will redirects us to eternal purposes. The knowledge Paul prays for isn’t merely academic; it’s practical, life-giving, and glorifying to God.

As we seek to grow in knowledge and wisdom, let us do so with the goal of living lives that honor Him. May our thoughts, words, and actions reflect a deep understanding of His will, and may we bear fruit that pleases Him in every good work.

Precision Speech

Ephesians 4:29 offers us a vital reminder: “You must let no unwholesome word come out of your mouth, but only what is beneficial for the building up of the one in need, that it may give grace to those who hear” (NET). The command here isn’t just about avoiding foul language or gossip but speaks to a broader discipline—intentionality in our speech.

Words have incredible power. Proverbs 18:21 teaches us that “the tongue has the power of life and death.” With our words, we can build up or tear down, give grace or grief, spark joy or sorrow. Paul’s instruction calls us to a higher standard: speaking not what comes easiest or feels satisfying in the moment, but what is thoughtful and beneficial for others.

Consider how often we speak without thinking. An offhand comment, an unfiltered reply, or a casual critique can leave wounds we never intended. Yet, when we choose our words with care—offering encouragement, speaking truth in love, or simply remaining silent when needed—we can profoundly bless those around us.

The challenge of precision speech is compounded in a world of instant communication. Social media, texting, and emails invite rapid, reactionary replies. But what if we approached every word with the intentionality Paul prescribes? Before speaking or typing, we could pause and ask:

  • Does this build someone up?
  • Does it meet a real need?
  • Does it reflect God’s grace?

Precision in speech isn’t about perfection but purpose. It’s about using our words as tools for edification rather than weapons of division. This discipline mirrors the character of Jesus, who always spoke with wisdom, truth, and grace.

Today, let’s embrace the challenge of intentional words. Speak life, encouragement, and hope. Build up, bless, and be silent when necessary. In doing so, our speech will reflect the God who speaks with purpose and love.

Your Best Life Now

The title may give you pause, especially if you’ve heard it used in ways that promise a prosperity-focused, trouble-free existence. Yet as we turn to 2 Corinthians 6:4-13, Paul offers us a very different vision of what “your best life now” truly looks like. It’s not about ease or worldly success but about enduring with integrity and grace through every circumstance life throws at you.

Paul writes, “Rather, as servants of God, we have commended ourselves in every way: in great endurance; in troubles, hardships, and distresses” (v. 4, NET). The list that follows is sobering: beatings, imprisonments, sleepless nights, hunger. It’s a far cry from the kind of life we might associate with the phrase “best life.” Yet Paul calls us to redefine success in light of the Gospel. To live your best life now is to live a life of faithfulness—no matter what.

This passage is not a call to seek suffering for its own sake but to rise above circumstances with integrity and steadfastness. Paul describes a life lived “in purity, in knowledge, in patience, in kindness, in the Holy Spirit, in genuine love” (v. 6). Even when surrounded by opposition, betrayal, or hardship, the call remains the same: to conduct ourselves in a way that reflects God’s character.

Why? Because how we live in the present carries eternal significance. The world may misunderstand, ridicule, or even persecute us, but our worth is not defined by worldly measures. Paul experienced being “sorrowful, yet always rejoicing; poor, yet making many rich; as having nothing, and yet possessing everything” (v. 10). This paradox highlights a life deeply anchored in Christ, untouchable by external circumstances.

Here’s the challenge: How do we respond when life feels anything but “best”? When trials come, do we reflect the peace and power of the Spirit, or do we falter in fear and frustration? This isn’t about perfection but about growth—leaning into God’s grace to sustain us when our strength fails.

In verse 13, Paul exhorts the Corinthians, “open wide your hearts also.” The best life is one lived open to God and to others, vulnerable yet strong, humble yet bold. It’s not marked by worldly wealth or comfort but by the richness of a life lived in fellowship with Christ and His people.

So, yes, in Christ, you can live your best life now—but not in the way the world might expect. It’s a life of faithfulness, endurance, and hope, one that glorifies God in all circumstances and points others to Him. And as we endure in this life, we hold to the promise of eternal joy in the life to come.

On the Vulnerability of Leadership

Leadership can feel like walking a tightrope. On the one hand, leaders are expected to guide with wisdom, strength, and decisiveness. On the other, they are human—prone to weariness, doubt, and the need for support. Paul’s plea in Romans 15:30-32 offers a rare glimpse into the vulnerability of one of Christianity’s most influential leaders. He asks for prayer, not out of formality but out of deep need: “Now I urge you, brothers and sisters, through our Lord Jesus Christ and through the love of the Spirit, to join fervently with me in prayer to God on my behalf. Pray that I may be rescued from those who are disobedient in Judea and that my ministry in Jerusalem may be acceptable to the saints.”

Paul does not pretend to be above the struggles of ministry. He openly acknowledges his fears and uncertainties. His request for prayer demonstrates a profound truth: leadership is not about projecting invulnerability but about fostering mutual dependence on God. Paul’s words challenge the modern tendency to idolize leaders who seem “above it all.” True leaders, like Paul, recognize that their strength is not in isolation but in a community that prays and intercedes with them.

What does this mean for us? Whether we lead in a church, a family, or a workplace, we must resist the urge to act as if we have it all together. Paul’s example invites us to share our burdens—with discretion and wisdom—with those we trust. Vulnerability in leadership does not diminish respect; it deepens it. It creates space for God’s power to be made perfect in weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9).

Yet vulnerability requires courage. It means acknowledging that we do not have all the answers and that we cannot carry the weight of leadership alone. It also means inviting others to partner with us through prayer, encouragement, and accountability. Paul’s request to the Romans reminds us that even the greatest leaders need prayer warriors to stand in the gap for them.

Reflect on your leadership today. Have you created space for vulnerability, or are you trapped in the pressure to appear invincible? What struggles are you carrying that you need to bring to God in prayer? And who are the trusted people in your life with whom you can share these burdens?

Christ Himself modeled this in Gethsemane when He asked His disciples to watch and pray with Him. If Jesus, the perfect leader, embraced vulnerability, how much more should we? Let us lead with authenticity, inviting others to see not our perfection but our dependence on God, so His strength can shine through us.

The Greatest Gift

In 1 Corinthians 12–13, Paul speaks to the beauty and diversity of spiritual gifts but shifts focus to what truly matters. While gifts like prophecy, teaching, and leadership are important for building up the church, Paul reminds us they are temporary. In chapter 13, he highlights the things that last forever: faith, hope, and love, with love being the greatest of all.

Paul’s words challenge our perspective on what we should desire most. It’s natural to long for visible gifts that gain recognition or seem to make the biggest impact. Yet Paul calls these gifts “partial” and “incomplete” compared to what is eternal (1 Corinthians 13:9–10). Teaching will one day no longer be needed when we know God fully. Prophecy and tongues will cease when the perfect kingdom comes. But faith, hope, and love endure because they are rooted in God’s eternal nature.

This doesn’t diminish the value of spiritual gifts but reorients our priorities. Gifts are tools for serving others here and now, but faith, hope, and love prepare us for eternity. Faith connects us to God, hope sustains us through trials, and love reflects God’s character and binds His people together. Paul writes, “Love never fails” (1 Corinthians 13:8) because it is the very essence of God Himself (1 John 4:8).

What does this mean for us today? While we should seek to develop and use the gifts God gives, we must also remember that they are a means to an end, not the end itself. Are we as eager to grow in love, to deepen our faith, or to anchor our lives in the hope of Christ’s return? These are the things that will not fade away, even when all else does.

Take a moment to reflect: Are your desires shaped more by what seems impressive or by what will last forever? True greatness in God’s kingdom isn’t measured by visible gifts but by the unseen work of faith, hope, and love in our hearts and lives.

To Judge or Not to Judge

The phrase “Judge not, lest ye be judged” has become a cultural catchphrase, often used to discourage any form of moral discernment. Yet in 1 Corinthians 5, Paul offers a strikingly different perspective, reminding us that judging is not only appropriate in some contexts—it’s necessary. Paul tells the Corinthian church to cast out a brother engaging in blatant and unrepentant sin, saying, “For what do I have to do with judging those outside? Are you not to judge those inside?” (1 Corinthians 5:12, NET).

Paul’s teaching here clarifies a common misconception. Jesus’ words in Matthew 7:1 aren’t a blanket prohibition against all judgment but a warning against hypocritical and self-righteous judgment. We’re called to examine our own hearts before addressing sin in others (Matthew 7:3–5). Paul builds on this, differentiating between judging outsiders—those who don’t claim to follow Christ—and judging those within the church who profess faith but live in open rebellion against God’s commands.

This kind of judgment isn’t about condemnation but restoration. The goal of church discipline, as harsh as it may seem, is redemptive. By removing the immoral brother, the church sends a clear message that sin cannot be tolerated in the community of believers, while also creating space for repentance and reconciliation. Paul writes, “Deliver this man to Satan for the destruction of the flesh, so that his spirit may be saved on the day of the Lord” (1 Corinthians 5:5).

In a world that often prioritizes tolerance over truth, this passage challenges us to embrace a higher standard of love—one that doesn’t ignore sin but confronts it for the sake of holiness. It also reminds us to leave ultimate judgment of the ungodly to God, who judges with perfect justice and mercy.

Are there areas where you’ve avoided addressing sin because it feels uncomfortable or counter-cultural? Paul’s words urge us to be bold yet humble, seeking restoration and standing firm in the truth of the Gospel.

Whose Praise Do You Seek?

Paul’s words in 1 Corinthians 3 are a profound reminder that the foundation of our lives and ministries must be Jesus Christ. Everything we build on that foundation will ultimately be tested by fire, revealing whether it was done for God’s glory or to gain the fleeting approval of others. It’s tempting to seek praise from people, but Paul makes it clear that our work is ultimately evaluated by God, not by human standards.

When we live to please others, we risk compromising God’s call on our lives. Paul cautions the Corinthians not to boast in human leaders or wisdom because they belong to Christ, and Christ belongs to God (1 Corinthians 3:21–23). This realignment of perspective is crucial. If we’re ashamed to stand firm in God’s truth because it might make us unpopular, we’re ultimately ashamed of Him—and that’s a sobering thought. Jesus Himself said, “For whoever is ashamed of Me and My words…the Son of Man will be ashamed of that person when He comes in His glory” (Luke 9:26).

This doesn’t mean we should actively seek to upset people or ignore the importance of kindness. As Paul says in Romans 12:18, “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all people.” However, when faced with a choice between obedience to God and the approval of man, the answer should always be clear. Pleasing God isn’t about arrogance or defiance but about faithfulness.

In a world that increasingly prioritizes popularity and consensus, ask yourself: Whose praise do you seek? Are your decisions shaped more by fear of disapproval or by a desire to hear “Well done, good and faithful servant” (Matthew 25:23)? Living for God’s glory may not always make sense to others, but it’s the only life that will stand the test of eternity.

Clean, But Not Clean Enough

In John 13, Jesus took a basin and towel to wash the disciples’ feet, a humbling act of service that challenged their understanding of cleanliness and purity. When Peter hesitated, Jesus gently reminded him that, while he was already “clean,” his feet still needed washing. Jesus wasn’t just talking about physical cleanliness—He was highlighting a truth about our walk of faith.

We’ve been made clean by Jesus’ sacrifice, accepted into His family, and freed from the power of sin. But like Peter and the disciples, we still walk through a world filled with brokenness, and inevitably, some of that dust clings to us. We may not need a full cleansing again, but we do need to keep coming to Jesus to have our feet washed. This humility of daily “cleansing” reminds us that our need for Jesus never goes away.

While we aim to live lives that honor God, we’re reminded that our strength doesn’t come from our own perfection. Instead, it comes from returning again and again to the One who washes us. He renews us, helping us release whatever shame, bitterness, or pride we may pick up as we move through life. Jesus’ love and grace restore us, grounding us in a peace that surpasses understanding.

So, as we walk forward today, let’s remember this beautiful invitation to come back to Jesus, knowing He is faithful to cleanse us. We’re already made new, yet in our ongoing journey, we need His touch each day. May we walk humbly, seeking His grace, and trusting that He never grows tired of washing our feet.