The story in Ezra 9-10, where Israel’s leaders command the people to divorce their foreign wives and send away their children, can be deeply unsettling. It seems unthinkable for a people called by God to care for the vulnerable, to suddenly turn their backs on their wives and children. Our initial response may be one of horror: how could this be God’s will? These women and young children, likely no older than toddlers given the timeline, are being abandoned. Should we expect this from the “God-fearing” men of Israel?

As we try to understand this difficult passage, it’s clear that these marriages were in direct violation of God’s command in Deuteronomy 7:3-4, where God forbade intermarrying with foreign nations to prevent the spread of idolatry. Ezra’s grief over this sin shows his deep concern for Israel’s spiritual purity, and his leadership reflects a heartfelt desire to bring the people back to God’s covenant. The consensus view among scholars is that Israel was in danger of repeating the same sins that had led them into exile, and this radical measure was necessary to protect the nation from further disobedience. In this sense, the command was aimed at ensuring the long-term survival of Israel as a people devoted to the Lord.

However, as admirable as Ezra’s zeal for God was, we must also wrestle with the painful fallout of this decision. The law emphasized caring for widows and orphans (Exodus 22:22), but these divorces would have created precisely that: a vulnerable group of women and children left without protection and provision. This raises a critical question: was this the best course of action? The passage offers no direct word from God about this particular command, only the advice of Shecaniah, and nowhere do we see God explicitly endorsing the divorces.

When we look at the broader picture of Scripture, we see that God often blessed people despite their failures. Take King David as a prominent example. His harem of wives and concubines clearly violated Deuteronomy 17:17, which forbade Israel’s kings from acquiring many wives. Yet God’s favor was evident in David’s life, not because of his obedience in this area, but because of his heart for God. It suggests that, while these marriages in Ezra were against the law, God may not have required such drastic measures for the people to return to Him. After all, He had already been blessing them before the command to divorce these women was ever issued.

This brings us to another possible interpretation: while the marriages were undeniably wrong, perhaps maintaining them would have been the lesser of two evils. Keeping the marriages intact would uphold the high view of marriage that permeates Scripture, and it would prevent creating the very widows and orphans that Israel was called to protect. After all, God had blessed Israel’s efforts before the divorces—was such a painful remedy really necessary?

In the end, Christians may come to different conclusions about how to interpret Ezra 9-10. Some will see the divorces as a necessary step toward restoring Israel’s faithfulness to the covenant. Others, like myself, hold that while the marriages were certainly wrong, tearing them apart may have done more harm than good. Either way, this passage challenges us to grapple with the complexity of obeying God in a fallen world. It calls us to acknowledge that even in difficult decisions, God’s mercy, justice, and faithfulness can always be trusted. As believers, we can disagree in good faith, but we must always seek to uphold the integrity of both God’s commands and His compassion.